“It’s important to have the opportunity to remember our loved ones, it is comforting for me”
Lisa Bevan will be supporting the Sunflower celebration and remembering both her mum Glenys and dad Patrick, who were both cared for by the Hospice.
Lisa was the main carer for both her mum and dad for many years and reflects on the support the Hospice provided for her family at a time when they needed it the most.
“The support of the Hospice gave mam the confidence and reassurance that she could stay at home where she wanted to be at the end of her life and also helped ease my stress and worry, knowing they were always on the end of the phone when I needed them”.
The Hospice were first involved with Lisa’s parents back in 2018 when Patrick her dad was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. “Someone from the Hospice would call every week to keep an eye on dad and also see how mum was coping as she also had heart failure” Lisa recalls.
Sadly after Patrick passed away in October 2018, Glenys’ condition also deteriorated and in September 2021 she had a heart attack. “Mam was my best friend and I always said I would look after her until the very end, the Hospice helped me do this. In the last week of mam’s life I couldn’t have done it on my own, the Hospice were amazing”.
After Glenys passed at home on 19th December 2021, Lisa found it very hard as she had spent so many years caring for both her parents and now she was left with a massive void in her life. Lisa accessed bereavement support from our Social Worker. “Jill was a massive support, I could just sit and cry and she would listen, it really helped release some of my pain”.